“Change only happens when the person wants to change.
You can make suggestions, or bring things to their attention, but people only make changes when they choose to.
It is never in your control.”.

“…The worst work experiences I’ve had forced me to recognize a very important thing: work does not have to define my life.
Work can be at the center of everything if you choose, but there are many other ways to live happy, fulfilling, meaningful lives.”.

(Scott Berkun)

See also: Right for the wrong reasons.